Wk 8: Beware of Pride

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What is pride? President Ezra Taft Benson wrote an incredible article called, "Beware of Pride." In this article, he outlines some of the characteristics and signs of pride. There is so much wisdom in what he shared. I think being aware of the different aspects of pride can help us recognize these characteristics on ourselves. Once we are aware, we can do something about it. We can become humble as we experience a change of heart and strive to do better and overcome the weakness of pride, in whatever way it manifests itself in you. Here is some of the insight from President Benson on the topic of pride:

Pride is competitive in nature. 

The proud tend to put themselves first and do what will benefit them without thinking of others. 

They have an "I am right" attitude and are not open to wisdom and direction outside of themselves.

They seek approval from others, especially of higher "rank."

It is easy for the prideful to see the pride in others but not in themselves.

Pride is not always from the top looking down; more often than not it is from the bottom looking up. (The poor envying the rich.)

Disobedience and inability to follow others. 

Selfishness and having a self centered demeanor.

Pride is power-seeking.

Any form of contention is prideful whether initiated or participated in. 

I know I've gotten caught in "prideful ways" especially in relationships. However, there is always hope! We can repent and do better. All we need is a change of heart and a willingness to improve. No one is perfect, but we can all strive to be a better spouse each day. By being aware of the different ways that pride manifests itself in us, we can stop those behaviors and thoughts that are potentially damaging to our relationship. Instead of being prideful, we can practice humility. We can put others' needs  before ourselves, seek to inspire and uplift others, offer service and be kind. We can pray for help as we seek to overcome these habits. We can look to those people whom we admire for their humility and seek to emulate them. We can be open and honest with our spouses and ask for their help as well. Armed with this knowledge of pride and how we can avoid it, we can improve our relationships and strive to become more humble in our lives and in our families.