The reality is, that today many parents are losing control of their children. These are parents that most likely have good intentions, however they are not reaching their desired outcomes. Parents seem to be letting their children get away with a lot more than they should be. Children seem to "rule the roost" so to speak and don't have many rules. If they do have rules, those rules may not be enforced or the parents neglect to follow through with discipline. In order to avoid conflict, many parents let their children get away with seemingly harmless behavior while they are young.
Contrary to what these parents may believe, they may be doing more damage than good. Children need love but they also need boundaries, rules and discipline. They need to understand there are consequences for their choices and behavior, both positive and negative. By setting boundaries and stepping up as the parent, you are setting your child up for success both now and later in life when they reach adulthood. Some parents need to expect more from their children.
That being said, the most important thing you can do for your child is to love them. Spend time with them, go on adventures, play games, take trips and make memories. Part of showing love to your children is by teaching them rules and boundaries. Also by expecting them to follow rules, be respectful and understand the parent-child relationship.
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